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Inspiration – Shut up and Write

It’s been three years since I first went to a Shut up and Write meetup in San Francisco.

The meeting was at Crossroads Cafe, near the Embarcadero. Immediately upon entering, I was astounded. It was a wonderful place, spacious, with a small bookstore, and an incredibly large, and cheap menu. I saw the red printed sign to the right, and introduced myself. It was a fairly new meetup, having only been going on for a few weeks.

It was the first writing meetup that connected with me – focusing specifically on my struggle, sitting down and writing. The concept is simple yet effective – we meetup at various cafes, introduce ourselves, then write silently, continuously, for an hour, on whatever project we want. After an hour, we talk, though there is no pressure to share or critique. That first day, I wrote in my journal, but from then on, I focused on my book, one I’d been struggling to finish.

It is incredibly effective. In those one hour sessions, I’d get two or three times the amount of writing done as a single hour on my own. It was positive psychology, group pressure helping all of get accomplished something far greater than we could have on our own. Shut up and Write helped me overcome my greatest barrier – building discipline. In those hourly meetups, I finished my book about my around the world trip.

When I moved to New York, I started the first chapter of Shut up and Write outside of the Bay Area, with my weekly meetup now having become four meetups organized by different folks in New York City. It’s a small, yet strong start. If you’re in NY, come!

Writing doesn’t have to be a solitary exercize – together, we can get more accomplished on our own projects then together.

It’s taken me three years to realize that it was fate, or luck, that night in San Francisco. Finding that meetup, going, and becoming part of the writing community, has changed me in ways I’m only beginning to understand. I’m finally realizing my dream of making writing a part of my life, no matter where I am. Now, in NY, I hope to spread to others what Rennie and the SF SU&W organizers did for me.

Spreading inspiration – is there any better way to make change?

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The New York City Attitude

After a year, I’ve synthesized it down. What it is that I don’t like about New York. My normal caveat, of course, that this only applies to me. My dislike of NY doesn’t mean you have to dislike it to. Strangely, I’ve found many New Yorkers can’t take this – my dislike of NY seems to drive them crazier.

Anyway, why I dislike New York. It’s not the difficult of living here…though cubersome and overly complicated.

It’s not the lack of nature.

It’s not the congestion

It’s when people tell me this.

“That’s just how New York it.”

or

“You’ll come to love the chaos.” (or disorganization, attitude, etc)

In those statements is, hidden within, is something a little more sinister. New York City is big, cumbersome, bureaucratic, inefficient, and it can’t be changed. We have to love it for what it is.

In San Francisco, people are always actively working to make the city better – laws are passed to make Government more efficient (at attempts to) and any threat to local cultural events are taken seriously. Protests are a part of life. People love SF and can complain about it, and then work to make it better. Whether they succeed or not is another question, but at least they try. There, people see the city for what it is a – a collection of people who can, together, make the city great.

New Yorkers speak about their community, about the solidarity, but I rarely see it. Here, the city is the living being, and we are just part of it.

It’s a minor attitude difference, but I think its at the root of what I don’t like about NYC. I’m to accept that shitty housing market, the inefficiencies, the dirtiness, as part of what makes NY great. Why?

Now, I’m still enjoying my time here – and enjoy a lot of things about the city, and love Columbia as a place of learning. But I want to live in place where people are empowered, where people treat each other with respect, and where we are the city. That, above all, is why I won’t be staying here.

So…where will I go?

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Japan – Photos Part 2

Courtesy of Sensei Tomoko Okagaki, our academic adviser for the trip.

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Being a Future Leader

It does sound a little pretentious. Future US Leaders, most of us coming off of lowly internships, not even having finished graduate school. Yet here we were, in Japan, guests of the Japan Foundation, who’d paid for all 14 of us to visit Japan for 10 days.

For me, it was a dramatic shift. To come from Indonesia, where I’d been braving the local metromini, to ultra-modern and comfortable – if HOTTER – Tokyo. My cheap t-shirts and shorts were replaced by business shirts and slacks. We were here to represent America, and that meant dressing well, even if the A/C was being kept high due to recent energy crisis (more on that later).

Japan is a fascinating country. There is probably no other country in Asia that had as little historical influence from Western colonialism – and it shows, despite the modernization. This trip, I got a deeper sense of the long history, and the strong, continual thread that ties modern Japan to the granduers of the past – and also, the atrocities.

Having visited Korea earlier this trip, seeing relations across the sea from Japan’s perspective proved enlighening – and a reminder how large the cultural and historical gap between Asia and us across the Pacific is.

But what impressed me most was how open the Japan Foundation was – we weren’t being spoon-fed any rhetoric – but we were truly invited to exchange views, learn from each other, and become closer through common understanding.

We were 14 Americans being invited to Hiroshima, barely 65 years since we dropped the most destructive bomb in history here. Yet, we weren’t being told to atone for the past – we were there to see how we could build a better future.

Photos below!

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Pasar Baru – Jakarta Photos

During my last weekend in Jakarta, I joined a group of locals and explored Pasar Baru, the largest market in Jakarta, the go to spot for shoes, fake clothing, and textiles. I’d often been told this was the place to find Indians in Jakarta, but I only saw a few during my time there (still the most I ever saw in Indonesia).

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Bandung Photos

A few weekends ago, I made a trip to Bandung, the capital of West Java. This is the heart of Sundanese Indonesia, the second largest ethnic group in Indonesia after the Javanese. Bandung was a great escape – a beautiful city in a wonderful mountain location that I hope to return to someday soon.

A group of friendly, French speaking CSers also invited me to up to Tangkuban Perahu, a volcano in the mountains above Bandung – my first time exploring real nature. There, you are free to walk in and around the sulfuric ponds – they’d never let you do this in America.

 


 

 

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Indonesia Photos – August Edition

More photos from my explorations of Jakarta – Kota Tua, Anchol, and the coastline. Enjoy!

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Farewell Kehati!

Today is my last day at Kehati – so we had a little farewell party. No food (you should be able to figure out why), but I gave a short presentation (embedded below) and took questions. It was, without a doubt, a great experience here. Thanks to Kehati for letting me part of their family, if only for two months!

Presentation for Kehati staff.

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